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Xplisset's avatar

Correction: Harvard’s president is Alan Garber, not Claudine Gay. Thank you to Cassandra Butler for the catch. Also removed a duplicated paragraph, thanks Jerry McIntire.

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Let me tell you... at one time or another, nearly every woman has been harassed by some guy in power. It could be a boss, a father, a colleague, a clergy member, a teaching assistant, a professor, a mentor, etc etc etc. My friends and I can recount harassment even in our later years, when you'd think we wouldn't be so attractive anymore.

At some point, however, it's hard to push back because of the job market or worries that you won't get a decent review or that you can't sustain yourself on unemployment. And then there's the worry that you'll be labeled as "the troublemaker" or that your boss would retaliate because you went to HR. (Hint: Eventually you learn that HR isn't there to protect employees. It's there to protect the company.) For all practical purposes, it's a no-win situation for the women. The bottom line is that we simply want to depend on men to act responsibly. (And just for the record, women can harass men, too. It's just less common because we have fewer opportunities to be in the power position.)

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