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Karen Rile's avatar

As a former law-enforcement officer-turned-philosopher-and social critic, your perspective is crucial right now. Everyone should be reading your newsletters.

Susan Colao's avatar

This was hard to read, and honestly, I skimmed part of it near the end. I've been through way too much of this stuff.

"Women, whether as objects of lust or scorn, were to be conquered or controlled, not respected as equals."

I went through so much of this awful cruelty in the late '70s and early '80s as a high school and college athlete during the time of Title IX, and then later when I started to work and got promoted, meaning that I was often supervising other men.

The two horrid and so very offensive words that Jonathan Ross called Renee Good after he shot her were directed at me when my name and picture made the local news before or instead of the male athletes and I also heard those words a few times in my supervisory position in the early '80s, often after handing men their paychecks -- they had to come into my office to receive their paychecks...many of them didn't have offices...need I say more?

Thank you for continuing to expose the awful truth. Until we really come to grips with some deep-rooted hate and systemic privilege, we will continue to see these appalling acts and live with what so many men lamely describe as "men will be men" or "locker room talk."

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